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The Truth About Online Dating

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Hello everybody and welcome to Tripp's Tips My name is Tripp from trippadvice

com and today we're talking about online dating It's very, very popular these days and a lot of people are doing it, and a lot of people are figuring out that this is a really easy way to meet people Well, I think that yes in some cases this is true but there's also a few things you need to think about, so today we're going to go over the three reasons why you should wait on online dating So number one a lot of people think that dating in itself is very time consuming, which is very true So what they do is they go and sign up for a Match profile and an eHarmony profile and all that to think that doing that will save time

So in my experience and other people's experiences, I've found that this statement is false Online dating takes almost just as much time, potentially even more than actually going out there and trying to meet somebody I mean you've got to be looking at profiles, commenting on profiles, tweaking your own profile, waiting for responses back If you're a guy, you're messaging God knows how many girls every day and if you're a girl yours sifting through God knows how many messages every day so this stuff takes a ton of time In fact it's a lot easier to actually just go out there and put yourself in the world to try and meet people instead of relying on going in sifting through profiles

So that's like volunteering or just going to bars and clubs but maybe you don't need people that way and approaching girls that you see during the day I mean there's an endless possibilities of people you can meet outside of online dating Number two is a lot of of guys say to me that there's not really a lot of quality women out there in the real world and that they gotta go and find someone online because the girls of the bars and clubs are not "quality" There are tons and tons of quality women out there who you won't find online The third reason why you might want to wait on online dating is because dating is because you need to practice your social skills

There's a lot of guys out there who tell me that they're signing off because they're scared to go out and approach girls They're scared of the face-to-face rejection They're scared of putting themselves out there, so instead they're using online dating to cover up all these insecurities It's easier to message someone, you know, through the internet and actually going up to someone in person and telling them they're looking cute These are important tools

And online dating is not going to make you any better because by the time you get on that first date, where are you going to be with that? Eventually you're gonna have to meet them in person If you thought of any of those before or any of those have come across your mind then I urge you, wait on online dating, wait to make a profile, and instead go out there Get yourself in the real world and start meeting people face-to-face Start facing your fears Get out of your house

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